what is friendship? It seems a very easy question，but in fact it is not. If two or more people who often play together are true friends? I don’t think so. Friendship is a kind of relationship between two or more people, which can improve people to communicate with each other. Also friendship can help people go through the hardest time and solving thorny problem.
True friendship must base on trust, appreciation, common hobbies and ideal. People often say: ’True gold does not fear fire’. In the same way, True friendship does not fear the test of time. Some people had many friends when they are young, but when time went by, their friends went far away and had seldom communication. once one of them had a problem, which often is lack of money, he or she might get in touch with others soon. Actually, we are willing to lend money to them in most cases. But some of us are averse to do this. It is overwhelming because of the ‘friendship’. But this kind of friendship can just help us to solve some simple problems like borrowing money. Some important question which is about our mind or spirit cannot be solved.
Trusting our true friends is trusting ourselves. If we can’t trust our friends, what can they do when we meet the big challenge? So we are sure that trust is the fundamental element. Then we must appreciate the others, and that’s why they appreciate us and respect us. Appreciation also means common hobbies and common ideal. That’s the most important thing, because the ideal is pure, great and durable and it has nothing to do with desire and benefit. It can combine us to the same way and then we can get success easier.
How can we get the true friendship? we should get in touch, help each other and encourage each other. So it surfaces that friendship is not reason, but it is a result. Do you want to make more friends? Look for who has the same hobby with you, and then even look for the people on the same way.
